4 lamelui^^may us be safe

About a month ago there was a woman standing by the Mega Mall entrance passing out flyers to all the women going in. The woman had written the flyer herself to tell about an experience she had, so that she might warn other women.
The previous day, this woman had finished shopping, went out to her car and discovered that she had a flat. She got the jack out of the trunk and began to change the flat. A nice man dressed in business suit and carrying a briefcase walked up to her and said,
' I notice you ' re changing a flat tire. Would you like me to take care of it for you? '
The woman was grateful for his offer and accepted his help. They chatted amiably while the man changed the flat, and then put the flat tire and the jack in the trunk, shut it and dusted his hands off.
The woman thanked him profusely, and as she was about to get in her car, the man told her that he left his car around on the other side of the mall, and asked if she would mind giving him a lift to his car. She was a little surprised and asked him why his car was on the other side. He explained that he had met an old friend in the mall whom he hadn ' t seen for some time and they had a bite to eat and visited for a while; he got turned around in the mall and left through the wrong exit, and now he was running late and his car was clear around on the other side of the mall.
The woman hated to tell him ' no ' because he had just rescued her from having to change her flat tire all by herself, but she felt uneasy. Then she remembered seeing the man put his briefcase in her trunk before shutting it and before he asked her for the ride to his car.
She told him that she ' d be happy to drive him to his car, but she just remembered one last thing she needed to buy. She said she would only be a few minutes; he could sit down in her car and wait for her; she would be as quick as she could be. She hurried into the mall, and told a security guard what had happened; the guard came out to her car with her, but the man had left.
They opened the trunk, took out his locked briefcase and took it down to the police station. The police opened it (ostensibly to look for ID so they could return it to the man). What they found was rope, duct tape and knives.
When the police checked her ' flat ' tire, there was nothing wrong with it; the air had simply been let out. It was obvious what the man ' s motive was, and obvious that he had carefully thought it out in advance.
The woman was blessed to have escaped harm. How much worse it would have been had she waited in the car while the man fixed the tire, or if she had a baby strapped into a car seat. Or if she ' d gone against her judgment and given him a lift. I ' d like you to forward this to all the women you know.
It may save a life. A candle is not dimmed by lighting another candle. I was going to send this to the ladies only; but guys, if you love your mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to pass it on to them as well.
Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it....better safe than sorry.
ESther^^

Oh yes!!

Oh yes! I can make it to help in DYC...so happy. I will go back to Teluk Intan on 19 November. Fu Yoh...Don't know what can i help in DYC ler...haha...hope you guys can join me too...waiting to see you all..miss you all so much..hope to get crazy again in DYC....
Best of luck for those in university. Enjoy study for the final. and same goes to me too...haha...miss you all..
love,
kaichur

Where is the WILL and our YOUTH???

Where is all the Youth in Teluk Intan, I'm wondering...I heard that there is a problem happened in DYC this year where we are lack of committee who has experience, for example those from F6. Why this will happen? As what i know, there will be too much of committees in DYC until the exco has to reduce the number by eliminating them every year.But why the problem of lack of committee will happen in DYC this year? Yea, it may be not lack of committee,i should say is lack of experienced committee.Where are they and when they go? When i heard Bro. Oh said the Saturday night class might be closing for next year, I feel so sad. The Saturday night class teachers are willing to sacrisfy their time to teach in the Saturday night, and yet, the number of students decreasing year after year. It's a sad norm. Youths are the main power of our future buddhism, if youths do not take the effort to learn dharma,then who is going to pass the dharma to our future generation???
I do know that youngsters today are busy with their homework,their academic and also their co-curricular activities. I did before. There is sometime where i need to decide,wherethe i want to stay at home and study for my exam or i have to attend the activity in PBHP or neither one of them. It's really hard when we have to face the reality that in our country, result come first then follow by any soft skills. But, i have learnt a lot throughout the activities i Joined in PBHP and i did grew up to become more mature and more responsible. I know how to communicate with people in a proper manner, I know how to handle a situation when it come out of sudden, I have a lot of friends and peers who stand by me. I get a lot of things. I will feel regret is if let go PBHP activities that time. Lucky i m not.
So, girls and guys out there, if you feel free, do come back and help in DYC. I will be there if I have no activity in my university that time..HOPE to see you all there.
love,
KaiChur

taken in 2005 when i went to singapore..my first ever trip to the place away from malaysia..it was such a good memory..but this memory will keep in heart forever and ever ...it wont be repeated again when i received the phone call from my mum this morning..the weather is moody and cloudy..its jus lik what had happen when my teacher passed away..i can sense something is going to be wrong when my friend told me that i had a phone call from my mum..the bad news finally reached to my ears..my aunt in singapore passed away when sleeping without any single signal.i was stunned! i was ady late to my math class when talking to my mum through phone.sitting down on my chair, my tears keep rolling down my cheeks uncontrobally..i was trying to wipe it away as my teachers was teaching at that moment..i was thinking to go to singapore along with my family.but i cant.its too rush..i cant make it..thinking of this, my heart feels even hurt.i cant pay the last respect to my aunt ..act i shud say is my godmother..when she knew that i got excellent result in my pmr, she felt so proud of me and said that she would take me as her goddaughter as she has only a son. its all through phone..i stil owe her a word that she is longing to hear from me " gan ma"..cos that time i was too shy to address her lik that through phone.but its all over!!i dun hv the chance anymore!because of her and my uncle, i got my computer and my electronic dictionary which helped me a lot in my academic..i promise myself that i wil give them a treat when i grow up!i will! but why..why the god grab the chance away from me again..its again!!izzit the opportunity cost that we hv to bear as we grow up!it seems so horrible to me!the feeling is unbearable!scaryness overwhelmed me!what if one day i receive call again and it happen to be my family..i knw that u guys will say that i think too muc and so negatively..bt it wil happen! i m scared..i cant afford to lose anyone anymore especially my dear grandma and mother..please dun ever leave me alone..i m jus a fragile girl that wil meet the breaking point so easily..when thinking that i might be furthering my study abroad, the frighteness get even terrible..i knw i hv to appreciate b4 its too late..i dun1 to experience any guilty and regret feeling for losing anyone..but i cant promise that i can do it cos saying is always easier than applying..somemore now i cant always stay wit my family where the gap wil slowly widen..i dunno wat to do..i jus keep crying n crying today..all the sad thing n pro that happen to me came to my mind..i jus cant control..i wish i can cry it out..cos i m stressed!

the feeling of some1 had been leaving u forever is inexplainable.it did exist but when u r awake , u knw that u hv lost the person in this world..you cant find anyone exactly anymore.its so intangible..whenever i see my electronic dictionary now, i knw that u hv been leaving us..i m sorry , my dear godmother..i cant do anything for u ..the time for us to be together is only so limited..Yet, it wil form the most meaningful puzzle in my life..may u rest in peace..u will always in my heart and continue to inspire me to stay strong!

ESther..sorry that this blog wil be bit messy ..its all my random expression..i jus wish to express out all my frustration n feeling ...

My SecoNd Blog

wow yeah!!my second blog here..haha...firstly HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY TO KAI CHUR!! hehe...see i m so good!!i still remember although it had dy past!!hehe..pai seh la, kai chur!!and wat yumcha merdeka?!!dun post any important things like gathering in the chat box there!!cos no 1 will know..cos some members are nt active!!not some!!i think almost all except few of us..haha....haha,,quite busy here..so jus drop by to wish kaichur happy bday..will post nex time....and when are v goin to meet in kl together??haha....

from ESther^^

BeCaUs3 u H@v3 a B@d D@y!!

The day was so dark as i woke up... i can sense it's not goin 2 b a gud day... y i can sense tat? bcoz da nite b4... i receive a msg tat i'm not goin 2 hav a transport 2 fetch me bac 2 ti... i'm goin 2 sungkai n ipoh wit my frens to complete my assignmen... but then... i dun hav transport 2 come bac... so i hav no choice but ask my parents 2 go ipoh 2 fetch me... aiz... how guilty i feel... then... i headed 2 sungkai wit frens... then yet another bad news... i hav 2 cramp in a small car takin 6 ppl... but tats ok coz our body size is not tat big n v had fun in da car... then v reach sungkai n realize tat v dun hav a ball 2 play... nvm... v go n buy 1.... then v had fun playin da ball til noon n v plan 2 boil eggs n soak ourselves in da hotspring... on da way... mayb my hand is 2 itchie... i played da ball n it drops in2 da deep cliff... everyone can do nth but 2 watch da ball float away... i felt guilty again coz they din ask me 2 compensate 4 da ball... then it started 2 rain... v manage 2 soak in da hotspring 4 a while n then went 2 take a bath... 2 of my frens go n boil da eggs v brought along... luckily da eggs were nice... then v wanted 2 head 2 ipoh... but da drama had juz started... on of da car's tyre deflated... aiz... v can oni wait at sungkai until my fren pumped da tyre... but dis is not bad enuf... da worst ting is... while v were waitin... da key of da other car (v drove 2 cars) dropped in2 a pond full of fish... omg... can dis day go any worse?? aiz... luckily... a gud guy dived in2 da pond n helped us 5 da key... thank god he found it... but... da alarm couldn't work... SH*T!! v opened da door usin da key n da car alarm started 2 ring... aiz... v tried vy hard 2 5 da alarm setter... but V COULDN'T 5!!! WTF!! v search help everywher n luckily a mechanic came n found da switch... phew... finally v can go ipoh... da route 2 ipoh was not a smooth 1... it rained so heavily n v can hardly c da road... but thank god thank Buddha... v arrive ipoh savely... phew... wat a relieve... then i went 2 watch movie wit my ipoh frens as it was da assignmen... i nid 2 watch a "...." movie n wasted 2 hours ther... aiz... after da movie... da bad day roughly ends... i said gudbye 2 my frens n went bac wit my parents... n thank everythin i arrive in a piece... lol...
Conclusion + Feelin: it was a bad day... really bad day... juz like daniel powter's song... i really had a bad day... but luckily i hav my frens n my parents 2 go through da day wit me... thx my frens 4 not complainin 2 fetch me 2 ipoh... thx my frens 4 helpin me 2 complete my assignmen... without u all... i wont b able 2 complete my assignmen n thx 4 givin me a memorable n great vacation... i tink i can hardly 4get dat day... thx everyone... luv u guys n frenship 4eva.... nex... thx my parents who went 2 ipoh juz 2 fetch me bac (of course they went shoppin oso)... luv u mummy n daddy... n thx ipoh frens... help me buy ticket n accompany me 2 watch da horror movie... thx a lot... thank god... thank Buddha... it wasa a bad day but i consider lucky coz i'm stil alive... hehe... i'll take tis as a challenge n lesson... i'll grow wiser... it's not a vy bad day after all...

lame zai - bad luck de YB

kooi ling's convo...

Well guys, 5 aug is our big sister, KOOI LING's convocation...her master convo..well, nth much to talk bout it cause i didn't manage to go into the hall to attend the convocation as she just allowed to bring in 2 people to attend the ceremony. I have bought her a handbag, a POLO handbag and a tin of mushroom soup. Well, when i walked towards the DTC,the place where the convo held, i was thinking, em...ppl convo where got no flower 1..so i went to buy a flower there. haha..it's nice!...well, i took quite some picture with her but all in her camera,i just can post up 1 that is in my handphone to share with you all..it's really nice to see my friend in the convocation...CONGRATULATIOn KooiLIng...

love,
kaichur